Let's talk about friendship... Ermm... It's really hard to find the friend that you can really trust, rely on or always be there for you, you know? It's like in your whole life, a true friend can be found only 1 person. But I think it's already good enough to have one at least who understand you best^^.
You can't want a friend to be like the way they you want. They have their own nature too. But I think you should talk to friends more so that can understand you better. No need to keep everything inside and it will pile up till you break down. Of course everyone has their own thinking but it would be better to share so that you won't be suffer in the future 'cause you still have to live with them till years. It's nothing wrong to keep your guard down a bit so that your friends will know your true colours and knowing what's going on in your little head.
I also think that there is a small thin wall between girls and boys... Boys have different thoughts from girls 'cause the way God create the world. Girls like to see things in a very detail and every little thing but boys think that those things have no big deal. They might be harsh sometimes but they can be gentle if you ask for. Since you already know your friend so well 'cause you already spent like 2-3 years together, you should know how to talk to them to get what you want or what you really need from that person. Talk to him nicely and I'm sure you can get you really need. Be open-minded and generous. You should be the one who ask only, listen to him to what they really want from you too.
A good friend, no need to see face to face, no need to hear the voice just see the things that you write down on paper or message in handphone also can get the hint that you feeling down or happy .
ExampleAoy: Why did you come so late?
Emma: I was alighting at somerset and walked to douby guat then I walked to the wrong direction, I was frustrated...
Aoy: So you went to cry?
Emma: yes...
Something easy like this also can be known by a close friend.
If you are really close enough to your friends and they are your true friends I'm sure they will...
listen to all the craps you say even though it doesn't make sense at all for hours,
know how to make you laugh even though you just pass a huge disaster from somewhere,
come to you no matter if it's so late or if it's so jammed in the traffic if you ask for,
just shut up, sit down and don't ask anything when you are crying uncontrollably,
always be there for you for anytime in a day or 24/7 ^^.
So don't be down by stupid things that comes up in your mind that you are not good enough, you are so useless, so hot tempered and so bad to your friends. If you did something bad to them just say sorry and they will understand that you didn't mean to do it. But sometimes please think first before you say anything 'cause it might damage your friends' hearts to pieces...
So yea friend! Please know that I will be there for you, ok!? Don't be so down and keep blaming yourself 'cause it won't do any good but worse.
So don't worry, be happy^^.
Love.
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